So guys beleive it or not.. my romantic genes are still active.. lol... but rewind a couple of years back.. n these genes were hyperactive....This post is about an incident... an evening... which is one of the most memorable in my life.... An evening which i guess i will never forget... something that every guy wishes to do for his girl.. and something that every girl wishes that her guy will do it for her..So guys this dates back to March 1st 2004. This is the only imp date i remember in my life... else other than that m very bad at rememberin dates n stuff... but somehow i never forget this... some call it a date.. some call it a proposal thng... but for me this was just a regular dinner with the girl i liked the most but in a lil bit different way....
Those were the days when my creativity was at it peak.. trust me... may it be in writing.. or anything else... i would always be too creative with stuff... and I always wanted to tk her out for dinner but unlike ppl i decided nt to go to her fav restaurant.. rather makin this evening special for her... so i decided to host it at my friends farmhouse.... ( before i start the whole thing... i would like to thank my friends... i love them... muaaah... without them this would not have been possible... miss u guysss).... whch was on the outskirts of the city....
A couple of days had gone into the preparation n thnkin of how stuff should be done... and if it done.. it shud b perfect... so me and my frnds were engaged in this whole thng for like day or two... and finally came the DAY... 1st of March... and me and my friends finally arranged the whole thng in the gazibo out in the garden.... and had a quick shower and went off to pick her up...
M not a guy who is late.. but tht day i was late... and i made her wait for like more than half an hr... in whch i alomst got more than 10 calls askin whr was i??... so i picked her up n drover her back the farm... she was lookin gorgeous ... i fell more in love with her... hehe... she kept on askin me where were we going for dinner and stuff... btw.. it was a surprise for her.. she didnt knw tht i was gonna do somethin like tht.. she had no idea abt it...
I took her to the gate and blind folded her... drove the car in.... held her hand and made her walk wit me to the gazibo.... stood in front of her and told her to open her eyes.... juss to see the most beautiful thng ever... (as described by her)...
There she stood in the middle of the gazibo.... with the whole farmhouse pitch dark... nt even a single source of light... other thn the candles present in the gazibo... the place was all lit up with the yellow light and the aroma of candles whch bordered the whole gazibo... and a few floatin candles around at the enterance... the whole floor covered with the red baloons...a huge mickey whch was inflated on one of the pillars said "i love you, be mine"... and the table in the center... nicely made up... with a candle stand in the middle of the table and an ice bucket wit wine in it... every detail from the table cloth to the forks n spoons to the glasses to the food was taken care of.... it looked awesome... beyond explaination.... i felt tht was my world at tht time... brightly lit wit the candles .. wit no lights around... i wished this would never end....
As i told you before i was at my creative peak, there could nothin more better i could have done than writing a poem. So I stood in front of her, lookin at her. She needed a while for herself i guess, to actually believe what she was seein... there was silence for a while, with her lookin around all amused and spellbound. She came to me and gave me a longggg hug.... I felt good... just that beautiful smile on the her face... made me feel that all the efforts n time i put in were worth. I gave her a large bunch of roses and read out the poem (Sorry guys i dnt hv it right now else i would have pasted it here). That was a very emotional moment for me. I could feel my eyes wet as I was about to finish reciting my poem. We sat there, sipped on some wine.. just casually talking...
This whole thing lasted for like a couple of hrs. We had our dinner. clicked some pics and wrote each other something on the coasters, which were also designed by me, as a memory of tht beautiful evening. I took her back home and thats how the whole thing eneded. It is more detailed than i actaully explained but i guess this would give you guys an idea as to how it was. Anyways it was like the best thing i have ever done till today.
So my dear readers, the whole purpose of writin this post was nt just to show how wonderful a thing a did, but just to take an insight and talk a bit about LOVE. Everything that i would say is according to me. It is what i feel... its not necessary for you to agree to it. Everyone talks about love, everyone feels that he/she is in love, some of us like me even wonder what is love... I dont say i have got an answer to it.. but all i can say that it is one of the most beautiful feeling one can experience... For me, love and relationships dont always go together... so is the case with love and mairrages... I highly appreciate the fact that people in love ending up in a relationship or a mairrage but i dont thnk u can fall in love with someone keepin in mind the future and mairrage and stuff. And if you do that, its not love, cuz here u are using your mind, your rational approach and Love does not use brains, it just direct from the heart.
Love doesnt teach to expect, it teaches to accept. Never do anything for your beloved if u expect things in return. I know its the human nature. But still dont ever say that "you expect cuz u lov that person". Love is never about expecting, just accept what u get, let the other person do whatever he/she is happy in. All expectations are never fulfilled...
There is a very thin line between being caring and being possesive. People always misunderstand or infact never understand that. Possesiveness comes out of fear, out of insecurity.... And when in love one know no fears. If u r afraid, if u r insecured.. think again my frnd.. it nt love that u experiencing... The other individual is nt a materialistic entity that u would possess. Possessivness never brings the other person more close to u. Infact it repels. Cuz everyone needs their own space to breathe. Never sufocate anyone. That is the worst thing you can do in the name of Love.
Trust the person you love. I dont need to say that cuz if you dont trust him/her, you are not in love in the first place. I hate when one says "i love her, but i dont trust her". How can u love a person when you dont trust her. Its insane. Love is eternal, love in boundless, love is pure, love is sacred. But unfortunately, in todays world its given altogether a different meaning, cuz we as humans think we are too smart to use our brains in everything, which always is not right.
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